I have been doing this instagram-as-performance art since 2011. My very first post was a peony (a recurring guest on my feed), followed by a picture of my wheelchair covered in adventure dust with the caption "symbol of power" and then followed that with a decade of me being in my underwear on the internet! I have been hailed as the "most important sex icon of our generation" by @jeffpreston. But #sexicon was always in me. This photo is me at about 15 years old? my neon yello

A comment on one of my youtube videos says: “I feel wrong for being attracted to you in the pole dances, or maybe I should ask is it wrong for someone not disabled to be attracted to someone that is” Conveniently, I wrote specifically about this in my memoir! "And what to do with the hideous taboo of having sex with a disabled person? If anyone who wanted to have sex with me was a sick pervert, what did that make me for wanting to have sex with them? The most logical solution

You and your high school friend Dana were bobbing saltily in the Mediterranean Sea a couple years ago when she asked, “You are a complex wom